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Our Court Orders say the children have to spend equal time with each parent in the school holidays. What happens if the school holidays are extended?

Answer: 

In this case, the child would still spend equal time with each parent for the extended school holidays, unless this is not reasonable or possible in the current circumstances.

Where possible, make contact with the other parent ahead of any possible change to school holiday arrangements. Coming up with a plan ahead of time can help relieve pressure if/when schools are not open.

Allow for some flexibility in the plan to ensure the health and safety of children and other family members and to limit any spread of COVID-19. Flexible arrangements can help to minimise stress on both parents and children.

Children can feel uncertain about changes, and assuring them that you are working together can be comforting.

Remember that your child might be feeling worried or frightened about COVID-19 and the changes to their usual routine. They'll likely turn to their parents for reassurance in this tough time. Here is some advice from Child Mind Institute on how to talk to your child about the coronavirus.

For more useful suggestions, check out this Top Ten Guide for Separated Parents during COVID-19.

If you're finding it difficult to reach an agreement with your co-parent, you may wish to try mediation. Further information, advice or a referral to telephone-based Family Dispute Resolution services can be found on the Family Relationships Online website or by calling the Family Relationship Advice Line on 1800 050 321.

If you're feeling unsafe or experiencing domestic or family violence, you can access information, counselling and support through the 1800RESPECT website or call 1800 737 732. 1800RESPECT are open 24 hours a day during COVID-19.

If you believe you are in immediate danger please contact the Police in your State on 000.

Are you in a crisis?

  • If you are in immediate danger 

    call 000

  • 1800RESPECT - 24/7 domestic and family violence service:
    1800 737 732
  • Lifeline - 24/7 crisis support:
    13 11 14
  • MensLine - 24/7 telephone and online counselling for men:
    1300 78 99 78